Friday, October 9, 2015

Words of Inspiration

"Heavenly Father cares about me, even at 2:30 in the morning."
Laboring mom

"Your uterus isn't stronger than you because it is you!"

"9 centimeters!  It's too good to be true!"
Laboring mom

"I'm not afraid anymore"
Laboring mom

"I love him so much already!"

Oct. 8th 8:11 pm
9 pounces 15 ounces!

"I'm so glad we did it this way."

"He's going to be a great dad, he's my best friend"

Sunday, September 27, 2015

The Birth High

 My latest clients were expecting baby number 3.  During our prenatal appointment I asked them about their previous births.  To sum it up in one word: Loooong.  So when I was called to meet them around 10:00 pm I figured we would watch the sunrise together.

They beat me to the birth center, and I found mom laboring in the tub and dad rubbing her back during contractions.  I could tell right away they were going to be an amazing team.  I could also tell that this was NOT going to be a long birth.  The midwife informed me that mom was already 5 cm, 100% effaced, and that baby was fully engaged in the pelvis.  

As things intensified quickly, mom changed positions often, not really loving any of them.  :)  
She dealt with a bit of anxiety, and sought out reassurance from all of us there. 
The vote was unanimous that this mom was doing great!

I couldn't help but LOVE her tattoo stating "Life".  
How beautifully appropriate for tonight!

Around 12:40 am the urge to push hit.  Mom kept asking how much longer she needed to push.  If only I ever knew the answer to that question!

Dad and midwife both reached in the tub to help welcome this little girl.

Look at those adorable cheeks!  
I love seeing how calm water-birth babies are.

Welcome Vagda Sage
Born Sunday, Sept 27th at 1:12 am
Weighting 8 pounds 3 oz

Proud daddy.

I just LOVE when I see a woman so happy and vibrant after giving birth.  Many women refer to this as the after-birth high.  Mom's brain is full of endorphins and oxytocin, making her feel euphoric and instinctively maternal.  It's such an amazing thing to witness.  

We certainly didn't watch the sun come up together.  :)

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

After my all nighter from several nights ago, I've just been waiting for my next client to go in to labor (and hoping to get a little bit of sleep in between!).  I woke up Monday morning to a text saying my latest client's water had broken!  Very exciting news to receive, especially since this mom was approaching 41 weeks.  It can take a while for labor to start, even after the water has broken, so we just stayed in touch over text throughout the day.  

Labor took it's sweet time, as it often does with first time moms.  Fast forward to Tuesday evening, and my client was finally starting to feel some contractions.  I dropped by their home to see how they were doing and I found them working together so well!   Mom's sister and dogs were over for a quick visit, and beautiful music was playing.  Contractions were about 5 minutes apart when I arrived, but after a couple of hours, they were spacing out to about 14 minutes apart!  Not exactly the scenario we were hoping for, so we all decided to opt for some sleep.

I went home and went to bed, and was woken up around 2:00 am Wednesday morning.  Contractions were back and lasting a minute now.  YAY!  Real labor!  Mom and dad just needed a few ideas, and they were off into their world of labor support.  Mom had lots of essential oils prepared, and they gave her alot of comfort and energy.  

We got to the birth center around 5:00 am.  Mom was having some back pain, so we placed some heat on her lower back and used the rebozo (large scarf) to hold it in place.  It works so well!  

Around 7:30 am we moved mom to her hands and knees to help relieve back pain.  I was pretty convinced her baby was posterior.  No fun!  We quickly decided to move into the water to offer her the most relief.

The water instantly helped soothe her discomfort and helped mom relax.  Mom was cranking out contractions every 3 or 4 minutes, and she was coping extremely well.  Her husband offered great support the entire time, too.  Most of the time her biggest complaint was that she was hot or thirsty.  

Around 8:00 am discouragement kicked in.  Also normal.  What wasn't as normal was how this couple dealt with it.  It was such an honor to witness them reading scriptures together, praying aloud together, and listening to worship music.  (My favorite songs were the violin/piano arrangements of "Amazing Grace", "Oh My Father", "I Can Only Imagine", and "I Surrender All".  Will definitely be adding these to my playlists!)  

To me, birth has always been a sacred event that can bring a couple closer together and closer to God.  It was amazing to witness this couple incorporate their religious beliefs into their birth.  Just beautiful and heartwarming.  I am touched forever.  I hope they never forget how beautifully sacred their labor was.

The urge to push came off and on for several hours.  Not so normal.  Very indicative of baby not being in the right position yet.  This mom was so patient, and finally around 10:50 the real urge to pushed kicked in.

And at 12:04 pm, Wednesday August 12th, 
Jayden Zion was born!
Tipping the scale at 8 pounds 7 ounces

He pinked up so quickly and was so happy to be snuggled up with his mama!
But this mama still had some work to do.  Her uterus was tired and she needed some pitocin and some stitches.  (No fun!)

So dad was able to take over baby duty for a few minutes.  
Just look at how excited he is to be a father!

I know it felt like forever for this mama, but she finally was able to relax and feed her little one!  What an amazingly patient woman!  She had to wait over 50 hours after her water breaking to hold this little guy!

Saturday, August 8, 2015

Crazy Eights

It seems like I missed every birth at the birth center this summer!  And with a due date of July 27th, I was worried I would miss this one since I was out of town until July 25th!  (Don't worry, there are two doulas at the center, so no one was left alone!) But the days kept ticking and ticking by...  After a week, it was pretty clear to see that I didn't need to worry about missing this one.  :)

Getting very close to her 42 week mark (the point where women legally have to transfer to hospital care) it was time to try sweeping the membranes.  So the morning of August 7th, this mom had her membranes stripped and discovered she was already dilated to almost 5 cm!  

I received a text around 5:30 pm letting me know that contractions had started and were about 10 minutes apart, but I wasn't called to meet the couple until after midnight.  By 2:00 am we were all at the birth center.  Mom and dad were a great team from the get go!  He read birthing affirmations during contractions and helped ease her discomfort with pressure points.  

By 2:30, mom was in the tub.  The look on her face says it all.  The water feels good!  She found her internal focus, listened to relaxing music, and labored beautifully for hours.  She even kept up her manners with plenty of "Please" and "Thank Yous".  Hollywood always depicts women as being so rude and irritable during labor, but that is hardly ever the case.  Most labors are peaceful and pleasant.

Around 6:30 am mom became a little antsy, and frustrated at lack of progress.  She was cranking out contractions every 3 or 4 minutes for hours, but baby didn't seem to be moving down.  We decided to change some positions, and I kept feeling like we needed to do something to encourage the water to break.  You can't make your water break, but many times I've seen the water break once you put more gravitational force on the labor.  So we got out of the tub and mom and dad did the high school dance, and POP!  There went the water.  It was just what the labor needed as things intensified quickly after that.

Mom got back in the water for delivery, and about 40 minutes later, baby June slipped into the world, covered in cheesy vernix!  This mom pushed for hours with baby #1, and delivered baby #2 in under one hour.  I always say it's easier once the trail has been blazed!  :)

Born 8/8/2015
7:40 am

Who smiles while they are delivering their placenta?!
This sweet mom does!  And look at that cute baby!

Dad had a few minutes for some daddy-daughter bonding, then it was back to mom for the first feed.

This little girl latched on right away.

What a beautiful birth and wonderful couple.  This little girl is loved!

Monday, May 11, 2015

Capping off a Perfect Mother's Day

My latest client was experiencing signs of labor for days.  We texted often, and it seemed like active labor was always just around the corner..  But after a few hours of regular contractions, they would always die down.  I thought for sure we'd be celebrating Mother's Day together!  But I crawled into bed Sunday evening (after a wonderful day with my own mother, mother in law, my husband and my 4 kiddos!), only to be awoken right at 1:00 am!  Active labor had finally arrived!

We all gathered at the birth center around 1:45 am, and mom was already 7 cm.  Active labor was about to bow out and make room for transition!  It was clear that even though this labor to a long time to start, it was definitely going to be a short delivery!
Things were intense.  Mom mainly labored in the tub, and dad gave her awesome support.  He was always by her side, whispering encouraging words, and even got in the tub to rub mom's back.  What an amazing team!  At 2:30 am I wrote in my notes how touched I was by his loving support.  

Shortly after 3:00 am, mom wanted to get out of the tub and lay down in the bed.  At 3:20 am her water broke, and the urge to push came quickly after that.  

This is a picture of moms foot resting on the midwife's shoulder.  I just love the type of support midwives give!  But pushing in the bed wasn't working, so we got mom onto the birthing stool, and at 3:35 am, on May 11th, Ryker made his debut!

Not only was the cord wrapped around his neck twice, it also had a true knot tied in it. 
Apparently, this is good luck!  (It was also one of the longest cords I've ever seen!)

This little guy is the lucky one, he is so loved!

8 pounds, 9 ounces of pure joy.

What a cutie, and what a perfect way to finish off Mother's Day!

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Let's Play Ping Pong

Last night I was teaching a class at the birth center to our moms set to deliver this summer.  I was enjoying getting to know them when my phone starting buzzing.  A lot.  It was my doula partner, letting me know that we had two women in early labor, and I was going to be needed tonight!  I wrapped things up, inhaled my dinner, and ran home to change my clothes and grab my supplies.

I got a call around 10 pm from my client, saying her contractions were coming every 3 minutes!  But she was talking through them, and I really couldn't tell if she was in early labor or active labor.  She was coping so well, I assumed she wouldn't need me for hours.  But literally the second I climbed into bed I got a call saying they were heading to the birth center.  I jumped in my car and met them there around 11:30.

Mom was dilated 4 cm.  So she still had a ways to go.  She found solace in the tub and loved having cool water on her face, neck, and back.  She enjoyed listening to piano music, and would ask me to "crank it" so she could hear it over the jets of the tub. She kept pumping out contractions like crazy, and we all started to assume that this birth was going to go fast!

Meanwhile, across the hall, another woman was also progressing quickly....

At 1:00 am mom asked for nitrous, and thus began one of the most entertaining births I've ever attended.  I'm really starting to believe that God gave us nitrous for the sole purpose of assisting laboring moms.  It takes off just enough of the pain, elevates mom's mood, aids in relaxation, and dulls nerves.  All without affecting the baby, at all.  Well, it really seemed to elevate my client's mood.  During contractions she would tell us how horrible it was and how she never wanted to do this again.  Then in between contractions she would tell us how easy it was, lol!   My favorite quote of the night was "This is nothing.  Seriously.  NOTHING."  (If only you could hear her inflection through my writing!  Hysterical.)

At 1:45 am, mom started feeling small urges to push, and was dilated to 8 cm.  Record speed for a first time mom!  When we first arrived at the birth center she asked me to tell her about my first birth, and I told her how once I got to 8 cm I felt so invigorated and knew I could do it!  She remembered, and became invigorated herself.  She was almost there.

Across the hall pushing was taking place, and it was looking like these two moms might deliver at the same time.  Around 2:10 am we heard a newborn crying, and my client was so excited for her friend who had just given birth.  She started shouting across the hall "Go G! Congratulations!  Wooh!"  There was so much excitement and energy in the air.  It was such a cool experience.

At 2:19 my client's water broke, and the urge to push intensified quickly.  Charlotte, the midwife, was still in the other room finishing things up with mom number one, and my role was to help my client not deliver until the midwife was available again.  My client followed instructions beautifully, and was able to breath through her contractions for quite some time.  But after so long, I knew we were close, (and I didn't want to deliver the baby!), so I ran over and told Charlotte she was needed, asap!

At 2:43 am, April 23rd, 2015, this chunky girl slipped into the world.
Welcome baby Harper!  8 lbs 8 oz
She had the longest hair, the loudest cry, and the cutest cheeks! 

This mom was definitely a little high from the nitrous, but this picture shows the best high of all.  The thrill and overwhelming joy of holding your child for the first time.

Then there was a knock on the door.  It was my doula partner, telling us that mom #1 was ready to deliver her placenta.  So off Charlotte went to deliver that placenta, then was back in our room several minutes later to assist my client as she delivered her's.  It was quite the game of midwifery ping pong!  But in the end, everything worked out perfectly time-wise.

This dad was totally enamored with his daughter.  
One of my favorite things to witness.

Look at those adorable feet!  

This little girl did not like being separated from her mom, and cried every time someone else held her.  Even if it was just for a second. Once mom was all settled into bed, baby Harper quickly latched on perfectly and enjoyed her first meal.  After nursing for a while, this family was ready for a nap.  When I left they were all snuggled in bed together and almost asleep.  
(Hopefully they actually got some rest!)